Attracting Love to Your Life

As Valentines day rolls around you may be feeling there is something missing in your life. Nowadays with the rise of the feminist movement it is echoed that we do not require a significant other to be happy. But no one can tell you that the longing for partnership that you feel is nothing.

Love spells can be a touchy subject among the spiritual community and you should always remember a few basic points when casting any love spell.

• Do not try to mess with free will. If you try, this relationship will not work.
• Some relationships don’t last. As our life changes so do our needs.
• Relationships require work, you need to put in the effort to reap the rewards.

Go into a love spell with patience and a clear definition of what you need. Yes, I know we hear it over and over again but the universe only gives you what you need and can handle. What we want is not always what we are ready for and life is about balance.

The best way to attract love in your life is to do a drawing spell or create a mojo bag to attract the qualities you want in a partner and carry it on you, rather than fixating on one person who you believe is “the one”. These types of spells work by giving you options and bringing what you need before you. This way you can nurture and grow your relationship.

I love mojo bags and poppets as you can really tailor make them to your needs so I have set out below is a list of items to make yourself a love attracting mojo bag.

To create a love mojo bag:

1. Choose your colour based on its magical properties. Red or pink are favoured for love spells.
2. Place in your magical items. When placing items in your mojo bag it should always be an odd number and using no less than three items and no more than 13 items.  This can include written affirmations, sigils and any other ingredients you want.
3. Once all your items are in your bag tie it up using the draw strings.
4. It is time to charge your bag. Holding your bag between your hands in a prayer position meditate and visualise your intentions for the mojo bag.
5. The bag is then carried on the person.

To create a love poppet:

1. Create a small poppet out of red and pink felt – this poppet represents you so make it represent you.
2.  Stuff the poppet with items of your choice, herbs, crystals, your hair, magick writings, sigils.
3. Carry on yourself or put with rose petals in a place close to you suck as under your pillow or bed.

Colours

• Red: Courage, Energy, Health, Passion, Power, Protection, Salamander , Sex, Strength, Vitality.
• Pink: Affection, Emotions, Femininity, Friendship, Love, Peace, Romance.
• Yellow – Attraction, Centering, Confidence, Creativity, Happiness, Power, Solar Magic, Vision, Wisdom.
• Green – Balance, Beauty, Courage, Gardening, Employment, Gifts, Gnomes, Growth, Healing, Herbs, Faery, Fertility, Luck, Luxury, Peace, Prosperity, Success
• Purple – Astral Projection, Divination, Power, Prophecy, Psychic Ability, Secrets, Spirituality, Success, Wisdom.
• Blue – Balance, Dreams, Forgiveness, Friendship, Guardians, Growth, Harmony, Healing, Hope, Inspiration, Joy, Lies, Self-Improvement.

Herbs:

• Pink roses – Said to be a great start to a new relationship, they draw in sweet and romantic love.
• Red Roses – Alive with passion, red roses are said to draw in sensual love and passion.
• Adam and Eve Powder – Carry both in your mojo bag to draw a lover to you.
• Catnip – not just for cats when used with rose petals catnip helps to form a loving bond to strengthen a relationship.
• Cinnamon – Used to increase passion.
• Damiana – Add for sensuality and sexual desire.
• Elecampane – Is said to attract ones soul mate
• Jasmine – Said to attract a spiritual connection.
• Juniper Berries – said to bring security and protection.
• Oak – Is said to increase feminine fertility and masculine virility
• White Willow Bark – Is said to attract love not only now but for the future.

Crystals

• Amethyst – Said to strengthen the bond between lovers.
• Blue Lace Agate – Said to be a supportive and nurturing crystal. It is said to help stop self sabotage and dispel the feelings of rejection and being judged.
• Garnet is said to promote deep and meaningful love.
• Rose quartz – Said to create lasting and unconditional love as well as happiness and fidelity.
• Rhodonite – Is said to remind us of the pain that can come from the heart, this stone is sadi to help release the pain of past relationships helping us move forward.
• Moonstone – Is said to help keep us calm during times of over-reacting. It is also said to help us break those relationship patterns so we can create a healthy relationship.
• Lapis Lazuli – A stone of Venus the goddess of love it is said to help with communication bringing honesty and active listening to the relationship.

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